My husband and I are flying ewr-syd next week on AA & QF with two children, 8 months and 2 years. We have purchased three seats, but it looks as though (after checking expertflyer) we may end up getting to choose between the bulkhead with a bassinet or 4 seats together not at the bulkhead. I am wondering if it would be better to have the four seats with armrests that raise up, or the space and convenience of the bassinet at the bulkhead? We plan to bring one car seat.

Any advice or opinions? I am also open to any other tips for making this adventure a success. I have read through the posts in this forum and gotten several good ideas -- I know when we have flown before domestically the amount of time I spent planning and packing was the biggest factor determining smooth travels.

Thanks,
Sara