Originally Posted by Peter N-H
But to repeat, the original question was not anyway about tipping, but bribery.
Peter N-H
Yes, Yes it was. Sort of. It really was more about local custom, hence the closing statement of not wanting to offend.
In NYC, you are expected to minimally tip the hostess if you want to maintain your place in line for a dinner table. You over tip to get seated faster. That's just how we roll.
Sincerely, thank you for the insight and the prompt response. I really don't want to act inappropriately.