While I do believe that a 44% mark-up in fees and gratuity is outrageous, I generally don't mind paying a little extra to make my stay more enjoyable. Sure, you could bring your own wine from home, but then what'll you do about a corkscrew, glasses, ice bucket, etc?? If what you're after is to have a nice, romantic setting waiting for you when you arrive, SPLURGE! Who knows - the concierge may spice up your room knowing that you're trying to plan a romantic eve with your man. Sometimes, it's not about the cost.