Originally Posted by ksandness
If language is a problem, can't your Japanese fiancee help out? Just curious.
Also, are you going to have a Japanese-style wedding, with all its strictly observed customs, or a Western-style wedding, which can be more free-form?
Western style wedding, and the reason my fiancee can't contribute much to the planning is because she's finishing up a Masters and has to finish her paper over the next 3 months. I wanted to scout out some preliminary places before we make a "binding" decision.