I ordered seafood meal(F and J)
In J both ways The FA refused to let me have the seafood meal on the menu and gave me a very ordinary steamed type diet( ) fish with very uninteresting veges while everyone got mouth watering lobster. so

no I certainly wouldnt ask for a special meal on J or F again.
I have taken it off my profile.
In F I managed to persuade them to give me the lobster on one sector but then they bought the crappy fish.

I dont think they understood English!
So I had another glass of Dom and washed it down with that

usually when I ask for a special meal on other airlines in F they give me the choice of the special or whats on the menu.