Originally Posted by grayland
My wife is a 65 year old grandmother and a long time 1P. She is very quiet and undemanding. We each have 72,701 EQM's in the first 4 months of this year.
As Mrs. Fredd and I are in the same general age range and with almost as many EQMs, I took particular note of your concern. If I faced circumstances such as you describe, I'd probably consider the extreme of getting a legal opinion first and proceeding from there. I agree that if you shared more of the details helpful and knowledgeable folks in this forum could offer you sound advice.
Good luck and I hope your wife will eventually have reason to change your mind!
Addendum: You beat me to it by adding details! Again, good luck!