Julie--Well move to the NYC area and see what housing looks like--quite similar! And gas is more/same here in NY state as well. From a cost of living perspective its a wash. I want to rent fora year or two just to see if I will stick. I've been told the laid back vibe will either be the kiss of death for me or welcomed...I am fairly laid back and have thrived in NYC--I work my arse off but know how to chill as well.

It seems like the Gaslamp area is growing big time and is the most urban for me. I am just wondering what the commute and parking situation is living downtown. I would be commuting from downtown to the la jolla/ univeristy heights? area. It took me about 20 mins on saturday. i can handle 30 mins I just dont want to deal with 1 hr+. I can do that in the NYC suburbs commuting into the city.