All I hear is that iTunes is horrible?
What should I know about it?
Should I avoid it?
Is anyone here using an alternative?

My wife uses it with her Mini on our ancient home desktop Win2k machine.
iTunes constantly crashes whenever we need to load the ipod, but for the most part it's a load once type thing and then again when the mini's HD crashed situation.

Now we have 2 Nano's and would ideally want to access the same library.

What's the best way for us to transition? We'll still keep the mini around to run the iHome clock radio.

THanks in advance for advice and suggestions.

Scho