That's not the Singapore I know - there will be lots of people throwing themselves at you. Trust me, I'm a bald, fat, old c**t and I'm never wanting for a freebie in Singapore! The reason is pure racism - I'm white. If you want a cruising hotel/shopping mall try Swissotel The Stamford - four floors of guys full-on cruising. I'm told the sauna at the adjacent hotel (same building - you get access) can get pretty raunchy late in the evening ... and for a very good reason - the BA and QF crew hotel is Swissotel!