If I was your fiancee and I stumbled upon your thread I think I'd smack you. Not only are you thinking of just your self and where YOU'D like to go but hello! there is another person in the equation now and maybe you should think about where SHE wants to go. Mybe sitting on a beach in the middle of nowhere isn't her idea of fun. Maybe shopping in some (oh my!) European (!) city that SHE has never been to is what SHE would like to do. Give it up dude...there are two of you now.