"...The true elitist makes everyone around her/him feel elite as well..."
Indeed! And I strongly suspect that you, and most of us, have actually known that for some time!
I actually understand, I believe, the basic tenet of the post and somewhat empathize - yet I'll also feely admit to eliciting tremendous enjoyment and benefit form my various elite status' - and I'm generally "guilt free" about it!
Yet I truly do appreciate it VERY much as I do the many companies and their wonderful employees that make it possible for me - and all of us! THANKS!