Originally Posted by GBOAC

OK, someone's gotta throw this out there...in these days of supposed equality, isn't that a tad sexist and old-fashioned? What gives your partner more right to be there than you? I can understand offering to swap to be nice or because you may want to treat them or indeed if want to swap, etc. but to [i]insist[/i because it's based purely on them being of the opposite sex therefore they somehow "deserve" or "should" be there instead of you, the man?