Thank you to everyone who replied in this thread and in PMs
Friday night is the APA.
Saturday train tickets and hotel will have to be the travel agency (guess will try to take care of at the airport).
Will take the nightlife suggestions (not that I will have anytime other than the weekend and that is looking downward). I also have the NYC times article on Tokyo on $500USD.
There are MR's on UA ex-NYC to NRT now for approx. $500USD all in.
One night at the Four Seasons next week. BANGING!

I only wish I had time to meet up with FT'ers. Is there a monthly or weekly Tokyo FTer thing that may be going on?