There was once upon a time when everyone held america in high regard as the place where freedom is respected. Where diversity and individuality was promoted.

I guess that in these uncertain times where conversatism is becoming the norm, complainst are bound to pop up when someone is deemed not conservative enough.

That being said, is it reasonable to place blame onto someone on a flight from montreal(black and blue weekend) where you knew such things were bound to happen. Furthermore, as the op has indicated, he made effort to try to decifer what was going on in what is deemed to be a private matter.

I can appreciate the situation if the offender was trying to pick up someone on the plane but was rejected but that would be considered personal verndeta and i won't go there.

Im not sure whether posters realise. Yes the GLBT community around the world can be .....y at times. Im a gam and i experienced it before in NE USA and other places. we all have our own preferences as to our sex partners but that doesnt necessary mean we cannot try to be nice and help our fellow "family" members when it calls for it.

When was the last time you were genuinely nice to someone?