i hope that Fter's would be kind enuff to allow a perspective from an asian point of view.

I have lived in singapore, Hong Kong, Malaysia and visited Bangkok, Phuket and Taiwan...

Generally, a lot of Asian boys are genuinely out there trying to find a GWM as a friend or more. While some of them are money boys, a lot of them have feelings and sometimes when they find someone attractive, sometimes emotions get in the way.

As a gam, i have met some really nice GWM, some really nasty GWM and some GWM who are really out for sex and nothing more. The sad thing is that miscommunication is often the key. As to where a lot of nasty GWM usually come from, i won't comment but i think we all know each and every country have their own unique culture that is not liked, for example, arrogance and cockiness, or moneymindedness and so on....

Perhaps, it would be good to caution future Fters who hire these "escort" or "money boys" to be upfront, sensitive yet honest and sincere in your intention. Very often and i recently became a victim of miscommunication and almost cried the whole night when some GWM decided to a 180 degrees and say i dun like you because i just dun w/o giving a reason.

We all know the gay culture is sometimes .....y especially in the past but in a world that is tending towards conservatism, perhaps its time we all try to be nice..