I agree that the FAs are not bartenders, babysitters, etc. There is a growing "attitude." Last month on a flight I saw a FA working, but not in uniform. He did have his ID clipped to his belt. He worea T-Shirt proclaiming, "Flight Attendants are here to save your a**, so kiss it."
I wrote to the airline with more specific information and received a reply that it would be "looked into."