Originally Posted by Efrem
...(I was fortunate enough to have my divorce handled by a mediator rather than by duelling lawyers. We approached a number of issues this way, though not specifically miles/points since I wasn't heavily into them at the time. I think we ended up with several win-wins and credit much of our remaining civil since then to this approach.)
Bravo! to you and your ex. It's depressing to see how many divorcing couples take an awful situation and turn it into a financial calamity by paying lawyers big bucks to inflict pain on the other.