We do recieve a list noting pax status. This list is called the "final". This list does show if someone has been upgraded, your one pass status gold plat etc, special meals, special needs, unaccomp. minors,connectors,and non revs. As far as the meal selections go I do not take orders according to your status. I start at the front and finish in the back. If i have a non-rev I treat them exactly the same unless for some reason a full fare pax really had their heart set on pasta or whatever I happen to be out of, I would then ask a non rev to switch meals.