It appears that my husband was not the only man that needed a little education on buying a rock for his better half. Forget about the miles. Let’s not let the tail wag the dog.

1. Find out what she wants. Is she into the biggest rock possible? Does she like antique jewelry? Does she want to design her own ring? Jewelries are very personal. She may not even want a diamond.
2. Decide how much you want to pay.
3. Go to several local jewelers and get a good idea of what you can get for what you are willing to pay. Make sure you understand the trade off between the size and quality.
4. Your choice may be more limited on the antique jewelries. For antique jewelry find the best deal you can from an antique dealer or jeweler. Make sure they will let you appraise the jewelry before you finalize the transaction.
5. For “regular” rings, find a diamond (or stone) wholesaler. You will always get a better deal buying diamonds separately and have them mounted by a trust jeweler. Too bad you are not in Houston, or I can recommend a good one.

A reputable jeweler or wholesaler will let you appraise the merchandise before you finalize the purchase.

Congratulations!