I confess that, sometimes, I'll say that I'm ready to order, let my wife order first, and then realize that I really don't know what I want and end up kind of agonizing over what to do before making a snap decision with my back against the wall. It's really annoying. I can see that. I can't imagine how it is for others. I try to shut up and look at the menu ASAP so I minimize these instances.