Originally Posted by Analise
That's another reason I won't cruise. Cruise ship companies have this insane idea that everybody wants to eat at tables of 10 people.
An over generalisation. There are many different dining options available on many different cruiselines with tables of varying size to suit and even if you did end up at a table for more than two, then a word with the maitre d' immediately should sort the issue. I certainly wouldn't feel embarrassed about doing that.
Why would you only want to sit with your husband, with whom you can dine any other time, unless you are newlyweds, that is? In my experience (two QE2 cruises), you will be missing out on a great experience if you limit yourself to a table for 2. It is an opportunity to meet new people, find out about other countries, customs, & cultures and in general, open your horizons. Isn't that part of the travel experience? Why go on the cruise at all if you just want to do the same thing you can do at home?

Not sure of the point of this question. As others have said, everyone is different. I am sure the poster has lots of reasons for cruising.
Good suggestion by laf747 to visit Cruise Critic. Lots of info there.
Phil