Your offer is MOST generous, very much in the spirit of one of the most friendly FT forums (some of the hacks in my home airline's forum--no names, please-- can be a little, shall we say, brusque at times: "Asked and answered. Use the search tool! Next?").
Following my usual practice when visiting a totally new place, we've arranged for an airport transfer through the RC. I have no idea how we'll feel when we get in or how long it will take to clear border formalities and check-in, but we very well may be able to meet up with everyone for dessert/drinks/coffee on the tail end of your dinner, especially since you're going to be in Nusa Dua, as the RC is also down on the Bukit peninsula. Do such events usually run long? If we could get to the restaurant around ten-ish, would we have any chance of meeting you? I'll run the idea of going straight to the restaurant after check-in by Mr. Megatop, which could put us there before 9:00, but I don't want to write any cheques he's not gonna cash, know what I mean?
Did someone mention getting together poolside on Sunday morning, before most of the group head back to SIN? Seems like a bunch of us are staying at the Westin and don't depart until SQ147 at 20:05 on Sunday night, so getting together Sunday, perhaps at the Westin, sounds promising. Also, since MANFlyer +1 will also be at the RC with us (not sure when he's leaving), so RC could be another option for Sunday.