Does anyone on FT use Box Trapper server side anti spam program?

I keep adding FT to my white list and every time a new forum post notification comes it, box trapper does not see it in the list.

Looking for suggestions...

If you don't know what Box Trapper is... when you send an email to someone, Box Trapper sends an email back and makes you either click on a link or reply to the email in order to add yourself to the persons white list.