Do you know your Login-ID and Password of M&M?
If yes log in on
www.lufthansa.com
Click on "My Details"--> "Miles and More"
If you have a paper-Card you will find your number there.
If you have a Plasitic-Card click on your Account statement.
There you will have your customer number.
With that number you should call M&M.
Forgotten PIN can be sent via snail mail