Originally Posted by red456
Do not presume, myrgirl to tell someone that they are over-reacting. You don't have a clue in the world as to why this person reacted the way she did to a secondary. We've been through this time and again - she could have very valid reasons for being petrified at the idea of a secondary. And whether or not the procedure was done in private is not the issue - unwanted touching is the issue.
You're right, I don't have a clue why she reacted the way she did. I am baffled as to why someone would get to the point where they are crying and afraid to take a job position all over a simple little something that hundreds of people do every single day. I do apologize for presuming. I should have stated that it was my opinion that she was over-reacting, because it is my opinion. I may be mistaken, but it's my understanding from her post that privacy was indeed the issue. Her comments about people watching, having to face the belt, afraid she was a freak show, all point to me a privacy issue not a touching issue.