Well, then name them all. Perceptually what do you, using your criteria with explaining, consider to be better than others. Use any comparison factor for inclusion.

For example one off the top of my head:
The St. James Club
becuase I recognize them now as a public full-service hotel, but formerly private only with bedrooms, dining, member events etc.......
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....there are 15+ or more

Using the original list of "amentities" I gave in myoriginal post----bedrooms/accomodations, fitness center, sports facilities, lounge rooms, bar, dining, private parties/events, weekly events of activities....sort of like a Country Club but in the City.

Thanks.