Airline status is just not what it use to be. Just book what you want these days. 10-15 years ago upgrades on flights were better. 8 SWU on explat that could actually be used.
now it’s work to even use the rewards. pay for what you want travel is better. If it can aligns with an airline or hotel great. Is it worth taking 2 connections vs the direct? Nope. Is it worth staying at a limited service hotel in the burbs for nights ? Nope.