Hi all, read through some of this thread but its very daunting and opinions are all over the place. I'm staying in BKK for 4 nights in early December. I have an explore rate available so the hotels are all pretty much same price for me around 4000-4500 with the exception of the Ritz. I'm titanium as well

It seems like the consensus is between SGS JW or Athenee. I mostly care about the hard product of the room but also the spread of the breakfast, specifically how Thai centric the food is and the availability of Thai fruits. Any advice on which to pick? Going with the lady for an anniversary so would like it to be somewhat special.