Any reverse herringbone seat, if you want to interact with your partner, always choose middle. Even if you could use the ottoman (like UAs new seat), the tables are too small to have two people eating.
Agree that seat controls are too easily touched - for me it was the upright button I kept hitting. Last flight, remote didn’t work - using the tv was incredibly unhandy.
I find the comfortable position an issue at any airline now with new herringbone - the leg rest seems to have been removed from latest seat designs (assume adds significant cost in terms of maintenance?) so I can never be truly comfortable.
But the leg space is amazing.