Originally Posted by
Adam Smith
If you don't want the PY upgrade, keep a close eye on the upgrade list when check-in closes. If it looks likely you'll be in PY, you can go to the gate and ask them to remove your upgrade request. You only have 5 minutes between when check-in closes and when the list runs automatically (except in the case of intervention by an agent), so don't dawdle, but it's easily doable.
everything turned out fine, didn’t have to worry, we ended up being 4 and 5 on the upgrade list and they had 7 seats available for upgrade and both my wife and I cleared.