There are a couple of threads covering bus options from t4 to t5
The bus stops at t4 are in link in this post
H30EM early morning employee bus between T4 and T5
You will need to click on 'map view'.
This stop has the free bus (H30) and the london buses. As
KARFA and
corporate-wage-slave mention there is a stop nearer the hotel which is only served by the london buses
There is a lot of other useful info in that thread