thank you all for the suggestions.

I'm still trying to find a resorce which either has reviews from multiple parties (like social media / tripadvisor) or if it's from a single point of view has several reviews so it's possible to gauge their taste/preference.

For example when I was looking at Kuala Lumpur I used https://www.eatdrinkkl.com/ and from there narrowed down the places I wanted to read up on.