What I wanted to say with my post is following, it seem I am repeating myself but let me try again.

When you encounter a problem that makes you miserable and unhappy, there is a three ways to deal with it: accept it as is and embrace it, change it, or remove yourself from the situation. Or, even better way to said - change the changeable, accept the unchangeable, and remove yourself from the unacceptable

In every of above case, the problem that makes you miserable and unhappy, ceses to exits one way or another. Everything else is, as someone put it, is madness.