I've stayed at the Wyndham Carmel Valley Ranch resort. It's definitely not five-star but it's a nice property, the rooms are very spacious, and the service is fine. I believe most of their rooms are suites and some of them have a sofa bed in the living room:
http://www.wyndham.com/hotels/MRYCV/main.wnt?aff=wyn02

Someday, I'd like to try the Quail Lodge. Their rooms are spacious too. Check out their golf and spa package; it's a very good deal, IMHO:
http://www.quaillodge.com/rates-packages-packages.cfm

The Highlands Inn offers incredible views:
http://www.highlandsinn.hyatt.com/property/index.jhtml