We need more information. The only things you have said you want to do are relax and meet women. If so, you can just relax in your home and use dating apps.

Seriously, I'd start by asking yourself what you'd like to DO, Is there a part of the world that interests you? Is there an activity you enjoy?

I realize some people just want to go someplace sunny and warm where they are indulged, and if so, then go for it. But it's not clear what you want.