Most often I'm in an aisle seat and when the seat belt light goes off I unbuckle, stand up and begin retrieving my items from the overhead bin. I wait until the people ahead of me are moving and go forward when there is room in front of me. No rush, no pushing, no elbows and no drama. There is no point trying to push past me in the narrow aisle and I don't go past anyone unless they are seated and showing no sign of getting up.