Thank for your insight, i'm a bit confused, did someone already book this flight for like in one year, and booked 1F and 1A (so likely two different people) or does the airline retains the first row to certain tiers as i have already seen many times in J. Like the best seat are only available if you are higher tiers in the program.
Well actually i think these seat are booked, as i tried to book 3 tickets on this flight, and it didn't work. So it's not like they have seats available for higher tiers.
Well at the end of the day, we managed to get 1A 2A for the return, and seating 2A, 2F isn't too bad, and my partner will use her pretty face to kindly ask to swap, and we will see what happen, as in the end it's really for her and her "separation issue"

... thinking twice it's also for me, she will be all the time in my suite haha