I'm somewhat speculating but it seems the "Exit Row/Child of some association on the same plane," thing is an FAA rule and AS might have messed up before and/or it's just something they are super-sensitive about lately. There have been other threads about the issue with GA's implementing the rule wrong. OP has a right to be frustrated and, as reported, the behavior of the GA sounds terrible. Thankfully, that is the minority from what I've experienced and read about here. I'd encourage OP to reach out to AS.