Glad it ended well! You can get the recordings immediately on
https://www.liveatc.net/
Your pilot background will help finding and navigating the maze of facilities, frequencies, handoffs, recordings and UTC.
I followed a distressed flight at BWI a few months ago. Its a bit of an effort.
Flight Cancelled, but bags STILL going to destination??
https://www.flyertalk.com/forum/35587148-post11.html
And Merry Christmas to y'all!