Dovster what’s happening with that Russian refugee family that you’ve befriended in recent years? You’ve been a generous friend to them when you were living at home.
your grandchild will better attach to you as she sees you more often. Twice a month is already super great. What helps the attachment is when her parents remind her of your importance to her. That’s what I helped do for my in-laws as we’d only see them 3-5 times a year as they lived a plane ride distance from us.