They are probably talking about how they don't blend in with the very distinct local Hawaiian culture.

Anybody not "from" Hawaii kind of stands out here. Such people, especially if they are white, are called haoles (pernounced how-oh-lees), which literally means foreigner, but is usually used as a label for a proper-english speaking white-guy. The local culture has developed its own distinct language/dialect/slang, diet, behaviors, icons, etc.

Just the way you talk will tell locals that you are not from here and, as a result, you may be treated differently.

Although most locals are a mix of Hawaiian, Asian (especially Japanese, Korean, Chinese), South Pacific Islander, Filipino, or Portugese -- being "local" is not about race. It's about being "from" Hawaii. Locals are white, too.

Not being local doesn't mean people will hate you. It just means that you will be somewhat of an outsider. That's all. And obviously locals will be favored over outsiders for certain things...

I have lived in Hawaii only the last 10 years of my life and not being local hasn't mattered to me at all. There are plenty of non-locals here. Do not think that not being local is some kind of barrier -- differences melt away very quickly if you let them.


[This message has been edited by anthonyanthony (edited 10-26-2000).]