I'm with Guy Betsy on this one.

In my mind, things don't add up for the OP. Experienced flyer, but doesn't have a clue where to go and forgets about the other trips that s/he'd planned. Terribly busy person, but not too busy to flirt with certain now-banned, multi-ID posters.

The Internet is a curious place. Some posters are what they claim to be, others are not, and each of us can choose to either believe a poster, to not believe a poster, or to withhold judgment.

To me, the sum of the OP's posts just doesn't add up.