Everyone here certainly has the right to post their opinion and experiences, so here is my thought process as someone who lives on airplanes these days:

-With so many airlines and so many different FA's, it's really hard to say without being there why they did what they did.
-In the end, the purpose of the flight is to get where we are going in the seat that we paid for. Granted, the soft product is part of it, but since it varies so much, I look at it as icing on the cake.
-Who knows? Perhaps the plane was running low on alcohol and they were rationing it. Maybe the FA mistook them for someone else? Maybe the OP looked drunk.

My cents, YMMV. Full disclosure: I do not consume alcohol (but don't judge others.)