Maybe romantic could be a good restaurant in the hotel you are staying in (more time together). In that case I would recommend the Die Port Van Cleve (
http://www.dieportvancleve.com/index.htm) and their restaurant De Poort, where they serve numbered steaks counting from their first in 1873. (I'm personally a vegetarian but I stand by my suggestion). It's a decent 4* hotel adjacent to the Magna Plaza across from Dam Square. If you search hard enough they almost always have a special or two going on. Also try
www.bookings.nl .