Love my Peak Design tote. As a photographer it's perfect for those "grab and go" scenarios. Not the greatest for shoulder carry though.

The camera/lens inserts pull out in seconds (velcro) and I probably use it 75% of the time for non-camera stuff. Heading over to friends and bringing wine or booze - the inserts are actually perfect for that.

I have the V1, not the latest version.
Here's a review from a female user if that makes a difference. https://shotkit.com/peak-design-ever...ote-v2-review/