Originally Posted by
Moyerclan
Just because he was holding his phone that doesn't mean he was filming you. Some hotels use your phones as the key to the room. I'd be holding my phone looking at the keysite too, I imagine?
I question you leaving the room multiple times and for long periods yet fearing someone would be rifling thru your baggage. Perhaps staying there and LOCKING the door would have reassured you that no one came back to the room.
This individual is looking for help and describing trauma. Empathy, not blame, is the humane response.