Originally Posted by MojaveFlyer

But you've got to clear the aisle, so hovering anywhere is going to be someone else's seat So my approach is to stand at the seat I would like, with my bag in hand and not overhead or under seat. I hope that conveys that I am looking for a swap, but not being presumptive. And always, always, always, give up the ask promptly and gracefully, with a smile, if it is declined.