I fully concur.

However that is of course no reason to not make it an incredible and romantic experience.

May I propose that you contact www.concierge.fr or 0890 710 311.
They will propose and organise an evening you will both remember.
Although they usually cater to French members, they make exceptions and do the same with a detail to be remembered (in my experience anyway). I know the proprieter, which may sound like I'm now impartial - maybe I am! If you decide to use them PM me and I'll ask them to take extra care of you!