I would say our order of preferences are:

1. Good window view
2. Seat Legroom
3. Order of meal service
4. Availability of Recline

Well, with the A330 it looks like 4A 5A are our only options for windows being close together.
For the 787-800, it's a matter of 3AC or DF. We don't mind sitting in the C or D seats on a narrow-body, we just avoid the middle section on the Wide Bodys. Is either side AC or DF recommended over the other?

While we're on the subject, are there any other seats for us to consider / avoid at T-80? Again, a good Window view is the most important thing to consider.

And it's great to see those aircraft to the aerolopa.com site. I was going to ask him about getting these birds on board.