Originally Posted by
shdflyer
Why does all this make me a jerk? I don’t get it. Please be gentle, I’m actually trying here.
I'll confess, I don't think your a jerk. IMhO that is a bit harsh.
But as mentioned above... this was a very nice gesture (again, provided the FA didn't tuck, grope, breathe heavily, pour water, slap, etc.).
Essentially you just complained about someone buying you a drink in a bar. Sure you didn't request it, you don't have to drink it.